practicing & mastering the art of self-love

"Loving you was like going to war. I never came back the same." - Warsan Shire When you start to  love someone more than you love yourself, you don't realize it until it's too late, and if you don't love yourself first, you become a hard person to love, and gradually stop being the person…

strong women writers: may we read them, may we become them

I took a deep breath and listened to the old brag of my heart. I am, I am, I am. In high school, it was Sylvia Plath.  I read her poetry religiously and I would write down quotes of hers in my notebooks. I thought she was the only person who understood me when I…

making a home out of yourself

A lot of people aren’t comfortable with doing things by themselves - they have to travel in packs, groups, gaggles to be reassured that they aren’t alone. The art of doing things alone is often stigmatized, especially for women. The word "home" has become more about people than places. But if I have learned anything…